Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Poisoning the children, with the court's blessings

I was talking to a total stranger last night (Hi, Brian) who turned out to be a brother! A brother in the Lord, that is.

Like the late Mrs. Bodine, Brian's wife had also shown her true colors. After many years of marriage (15), she broke her marriage vow before God and divorced her husband. She even committed adultery beforehand to "seal the deal."

That will be creepily parallel in another post. I'm finding that the more I hear about women leaving their husbands, the more creepily parallel these things are. I should have asked Brian if she did it with someone in his church.

Interestingly, wives, the Christian husbands I've talked to would have been willing to forgive you for that sin, even though, Biblically, your husband has the option to not take you back for that. But of course, as with God forgiving your sin, you need to ask first.

Brian also told me how mom had poisoned the mind of the children against him, Even to the point of making damning allegations in court, which were all proven to be false. (But not at the cost of several hundred thousand dollars. He was able to afford justice for the rich.)

Unfortunately, neither judges nor the police act when a woman lies in court or in a police report. Which only encourages more lying in court and in police reports by women. (Over the years, I had observed Mrs. Bodine becoming more embolden in her lies under oath.)

Remember the woman who lied in the Duke Lacrosse Rape case? She was never prosecuted for falsifying a police report.

And while I'm speaking about accountability, neither was the Prosecutor, Mike Nifong, ever held accountable for violating the civil rights of the three actual victims. There it was a case of "absolute immunity corrupts absolutely." See my blog about criminal prosecutors.

Fortunately in Brian's case, his children, after a few years of listening to mom's lies, finally saw the truth. His children have reconciled with him, his daughter even bursting out in tears one day, asking her father to forgive her for the things she had falsely said about him in court. (Although, thanks to the court system interfering in the family, mom still has custody of the kids.)

The only antidote for this type of poison is love. Unfortunately, it often takes time to act and the one poisoned has to be willing to take the antidote.

That story of mom poisoning the children reminded me of something Rush Limbaugh said way back in 2007 when Alec Baldwin's ex wife (Kim Basinger) taped and "leaked" an angry, frustrated voice mail Mr. Baldwin left his daughter. I sent a CD of this to former judge hinson to help him understand the dynamics of family law when Mrs. Bodine had begun poisoning her children and using the court to leave her husband. (What is the State doing in your marriage and family anyway? But that's a discussion for a different time.)

Whether you love or hate Rush doesn't change the veracity of his observation from years of life. Here's a short version of his observation about mom's in custody battles.

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